Help this poor girl ...
THis is from a true story ok.
Abit of background ah ...
Girl A: Career minded woman. Kinda yuppish. Single. Dated latest boyfriend also her first love for bloody ages.
Boy B:Career minded man, yuppie wannabe. Just ORD. Working first job. Dated girl A for bloody ages. Studying part time uni course. Still paying his motorcycle installments and recently set up his own company.
Girl A dumps Boy B after realising that he hasn't called her up for the past 1 week. Goes out on a night in the town. Comes back with obvious hickies which she claims comes from random strangers she didn't know.
Boy B says nothing.
Girl A says that she can't take it anymore.
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Excerpt from what may have been their conversation:
Girl A- says: u can go on with your life, i can move on with mine
Girl A- says: for fuck i keep calling you, distracting you
Girl A - says: when i can channel that energy doing something more productive
Girl A- says: even better, i can find someone to love who can love me back
Girl A - says: that's all i ask for
Boy B says: not making contact does not equation to not loving somebody.
Girl A- says: it doesn't but i need that
Girl A- says: different people have different needs
Girl A- says: and you don't need me
Girl A- says: u know, even if u don't like it, at least do it for me. show me that i'm special
Girl A- says: but it didn't happen
Boy B says: i have a job. and a business, and an aim to make money to get you something that u want. if that isn't doing something for u then wad is?
Girl A - says: is it? i didn't know that
Boy B says: BLING. if i wanted a car, I would have taken a free test drive long ago. why wait until now?
Girl A- says: so for that bling i can don't talk to you for a year than (apparently Boy B planning to buy her some mighty big bling)
Girl A- says: that is what you call love?
Girl A- says: i dunno how we become like that
Girl A- says: i really don't
Girl A- says: love is that same girl who packed you sandwiches when u were hungry
Girl A- says: love is when that guy brought me to changi end to watch the planes fly past
Girl A- says: what we had is no longer there
Girl A- says: and i'm not swayed by the amount of money you can dangle at me
Boy B says: those were the time where we didn't have to give a hoots about ur future. Our mom or dad doesn't support us no more. If I don't work and make a living, how is it possible to have a future?
Boy B says: In Sinkapore, no hard work = no job = no future. Life isn't that simple.
Boy B says: who doesn't want to have it easy? go watch planes all nite long even if it drizzles.
Boy B says: who doesn't want a lovey dovey life? Don't mention you. I too want that kind of life. But do we have a choice? Why would you be overseas then? wad for? To make enuff for a comfortable future rite?
Girl A- says: Its not going to work out, even if we had all the money, we wouldn't be happy
Girl A- says: because its you
Girl A- says: and its me
Girl A- says: and if it was a different person, someone who didn't need you to be around
Girl A- says: i guess it would have been your perfect relationship
Boy B says: there is no such thing as a perfect relationship.
Girl A - says: i agree
Girl A- says: but usually we come pretty close looking for it
Girl A- says: *for better or for worst, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health
Girl A- says: life is short
Girl A- says: at least i want it to be a happy one
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Which team are you rooting for?
I feel quite sad for the outcome. A couple who supposedly love each other yet they don't seem to see each other's point of view.
2 Comments:
angelic point of view:
both working hard for something..
be it for the other party or for own..
frankly, isn't easy to maintain long r/s..
in fact, mine also don't seems working out right..
same as the girl..
i'm working hard, but my case, i'm soon to be a crazy person..
anyway, just realised whenever it's dating during sch days, it's so much of fantasy..
working life start, the r/s come to a new test..
just like for me, i'll also hope my guy to be there when i need him..
but for guys, they need their what ever space..
it's just being egoistic of them..
sorry guys..
just feel that guys usually are nt as sensitive and as research shows, guys only treat girls like princess when they want to date/take her hand, that's what they called love..
after that so called love, their true self appear..
and tend to neglect on certain issues in the r/s..
for Girl A to move on with her life is good..
for Boy B, no perfect r/s is true and on the other hand i do agree with the girl that love is nt abt buying it with materials but to feel it in her heart..
Boy B, you have to work that out..
cos giving lots of money and materials doesn't mean you love her more..
both of you are at different stages in life.
dun force it.
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